Sara Tibbs

Sara Tibbs

Location
Holywood & Belfast

I am registered/accredited with
BACP

Code of ethics observed
BACP Ethical Framework for Good Practice in Counselling

Qualifications
Diploma in Person-Centred Counselling (QUB)
PhD English
MA Sociology

Special interest/experience
Adoption and Fostering
Family Support and Challenging behaviour
Attachment and developmental trauma in adoption
LGBTQIA+ issues
Neurodiversity (particularly ADHD and Autism)

Additional information
I am an adoptive parent. I have worked in the area of parent support for many years, focusing particularly on challenging behaviour and the parent/child relationship. I also work with university students, providing mentoring for students with Autism. My initial training was in person-centred counselling.

In recent years I have undertaken training in fostering and adoption, developmental trauma, attachment issues, suicide and self-harm, parent-to-child violence, secondary trauma, suicide prevention and safeguarding children and vulnerable adults. I bring to my counselling practice a professional and personal understanding of the challenges of adoption, as well as its rewards.

I have experience of the Statementing process for children with additional support needs and of Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services in Northern Ireland. I was commissioned by the TESSA Project to write the ‘Love and Rage’ support programme programme for adoptive parents of children with challenging behaviour.

In addition to my work at the TESSA Project I am a sessional counsellor for the Rainbow Project, working with LGBTQIA+ people and people who are questioning their gender identity or sexual orientation. In addition to my sessional work with charities, I have a small private practice.

Heather Low

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TESSA Counsellor

Location
Greater Belfast

I am registered/accredited with
BACP Accredited

Code of ethics observed
BACP

Qualifications
MSc in Counselling and Supervision
Certificate in Counselling Skills
Transactional Analysis Certificate
Solution Focused Brief Therapy Certificate
CPCPAG Level 5 Relationship Therapy (Relate trained)

Special interest/experience
Anxiety and Stress Management, Communication in relationships, Trauma, family systems and Attachments, Grief and Loss, Stress and Anxiety, Self-care.

Additional information
I have been practising as a counsellor and Supervisor for 18 years. I have worked for over 30 years in the community/voluntary sector with individuals, families and more recently couples. Working with issues such as Domestic violence, sexual abuse, emotional abuse.

I also have 15 years’ experience working in the field of pregnancy, birth trauma, post-pregnancy related issues, bereavement, post-natal depression and anxiety.

In my current post I coordinate a counseling service and provide supervision and training for counsellors. I worked for five years with parents in community-based settings, supporting them to develop ways to communicate with their children and engage in difficult conversations. Part of this work was with foster parents.

I have also worked with birth and adoptive families at different stages of the adoption process. I have a good sense of how complex things can be and why it is so important that everyone involved receives the support they need when they need it.

I have my own practice room in North Belfast with availability daytime and evenings. My room is within a shared building, and is accessible on the ground floor. Free parking is available on site.

My theoretical approach
I work with clients in an integrative way. While I hold Rogerian principals my work is underpinned by systems and attachment theories.   I also use the Transactional Analysis model of communication.

I see: Individuals and Couples

Willing to travel: Yes

Lynne Heber

Lynne Heber

TESSA Counsellor

Location
Newtownabbey

I am registered/accredited with
Registered Member of BACP

Code of ethics observed
BACP and Association of Christian Counsellors

Qualifications
Diploma in Counselling & Psychotherapy
Advanced Certificate in Counselling & Pastoral Care
Certificate in Listening Skills + Tutor Training
QUB Certificate in Social Welfare Studies
(I am a Registered Member of BACP & observe their code of ethics)

Special interest/experience
Adoption, Relationship Counselling, Depression, Bereavement, Anxiety & low self esteem.

Additional information
I am a mother of three children & stepmother to a child with ADHD & learning difficulties. I work in private practice by way of Zoom and face to face. My journey into counselling has grown out of my own personal experience of therapy and the difference it has made to my life.

Most of us at some time or another can feel overwhelmed by life’s challenges, which can leave us feeling helpless & alone. I believe that counselling can offer a safe & confidential space, which gives us the opportunity to explore our thoughts & feelings. When we are given a sense of being listened to & deeply understood we can then begin to resolve the issues that prevent us from moving forward. I work primarily from a Person-Centred base which is respectful & non-judgemental, drawing on a variety of therapeutic interventions as necessary.

My theoretical approach
I work primarily from a Person Centred base which is respectful and non-judgemental , and draw on a variety of therapeutic interventions as necessary.

I see: Individuals, Couples

Willing to travel? Yes

Catherine Gilligan

Catherine Gilligan

TESSA Counsellor

Location
Online

I am registered/accredited with:
IACP and IAHIP.

Code of ethics observed
IACP and IAHIP codes of ethics for good practice in Counselling and Psychotherapy.

Qualifications
Post Graduate Diploma in Supervision
Post Graduate Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy
Certificate in Solution Focused Counselling
Diploma in CBT
Post Graduate Diploma in Special Education
B. Ed Degree

Special interest/experience
Attachment Issues, Adoption, Shock and Trauma, Relationships.

Additional information
I have a particular interest in adoption. I aim to build a trusting therapeutic relationship with people and provide a private, confidential, and safe online therapeutic space in which we can work through the issues people bring to therapy. I have family experience of adoption, as adoptive mother to two grown up daughters.

I see: Individuals, couples, and families

Louise Faulkner

Louise Faulkner

TESSA Therapist

Location
Northern Ireland – Ireland

I am registered/accredited with:
DDP Connects UK
Northern Ireland Social Care Council (NISCC)
British Association Social Workers (BASW)

Code of ethics observed
NISCC and BASW

Qualifications
2022 Dyadic Developmental Certified Practitioner/PACE Trainer/Supervisor
2022 Theraplay LEVEL2 with Trauma Component
2022 Foundation Certification in Theraplay
2017 Non Violence Resistance Training
2015 DDP Masterclass
2015 Dr K. Golding, Foundations for Attachments Trainer Programme
2017 Group Theraplay
2014 Theraplay Level 1 and MIM’s Assessment Model
2014 PQ Specialist Social Work Award 1-3 obtained and ongoing
2010 / 2011 DDP Levels 1 & 2
Incredible Years BASIC, ADVANCED and DINA Programmes
2007 Foundation in Family Therapy and Systemic Practice
2006 Young Minds Certificate in Child and Adolescent Mental Health
2003    Queen’s University Belfast
MSW DIP/SW Social Work
1995 Middlesex University BA Hons in Art Practice in the Community and Psychology
1992 Burnley College Foundation Studies in Art and Design

Special interest/experience
My particular area of interest is in providing therapeutic support to children, young people and their adoptive families to enhance therapeutic parenting knowledge and responses, create safety and security within relationships and enable families and professionals to have challenging conversations with young people.

Additional information
I have been supporting families in NI for nearly 20 years and since 2012 I have been in the role of Senior Practitioner in a multi-disciplinary Therapeutic Team for Looked After and Adopted Children providing training, consultancy and direct therapeutic support to Looked After Children, children post adoption and their care giver network. I am also registered with BASW as an Independent Social Work Practitioner and Therapist.

Throughout my professional journey, as well as my own personal experiences of adoption, I have been fascinated by relationships, how we interact, how we influence each other, patterns of communication, our expectations, hopes and wishes as well as our commitments in relationships and attachments. Given their complexity, relationships can require support to think about how best to understand ourselves and others in helpful and safe ways and to develop a level of attachment security.

My theoretical approach
My practice is therefore significantly influenced by the principles, knowledge and skills of Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy (DDP), Family Therapy, Therapeutic Parenting Models and Theraplay as these interventions assess and promote resilience, attachment, self-regulation and mindful presence in times of difficulty and distress.

I see: Parents and Children

Any other work information? Work Area – Belfast

Lesley Delaney

Lesley Delaney

TESSA Counsellor

Location
Belfast

I am registered/accredited with:
BACP, Registered member; BICA Registered Member.

Code of ethics observed
BACP Ethical Framework for Good Practice in Counselling.

Qualifications
Degree in Integrative Counselling (Person-Centred, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Psychodynamic approaches) UU.
Safeguarding Children & Young People – UU.
Suicide Awareness & Prevention – Assist NI.

Special interest/experience
Adoption, Attachment issues, Childhood Trauma, Grief & Loss, Infertility,
Foetal Alcohol Spectrum Disorder, Relationship Counselling, Therapeutic Parenting, Neurodiversity (Dyslexia).

Additional information
Lesley Delaney is an adoptive parent, she has more than twenty five years’ experience of working with people within diverse business, public and private sector environments. She is a registered BACP Integrative Counsellor/Psychotherapist and BICA registered Fertility Counsellor. In her practice she works with individuals, couples and families facing a wide range of mental health issues.

Lesley has a wealth of experience of working with adoption; an experienced trainer, she has delivered training through BHSCT, Adoption UK and TESSA to prospective/current adopters and professionals working in adoption. She facilitates therapeutic group and individual sessions to provide direct support to adoptive parents on therapeutic parenting, developmental trauma, attachment, challenging behaviours, identity and issues of belonging.

Through her personal and professional experience, Lesley is passionate about supporting adoptive parents. Her aim is to provide advice and support to help empower parents, increase their confidence, promote the development of healthy attachment relationships, understand past trauma and improve parent and child’s ability to regulate. Ultimately to support parents and children to survive and thrive.

My theoretical approach
As an integrative Counsellor, I use aspects of Person Centred, CBT and Psychodynamic therapies to suit each client’s individual needs.

I see: Individuals, Couples, Families.

Julia McLaughlin

Juila McLaughlin

TESSA Therapist

Qualifications
BSC (Hons) Ost. Med. ND DPO

Additional information
Julia McLaughlin graduated with an honours degree in Osteopathic Medicine and a Diploma in Naturopathy from The British College of Osteopathic Medicine in 1999.

After gaining experience working in multidisciplinary clinics in Oxford, Bristol and Northern Ireland she set up her own clinic in Comber Co Down in 2003. She is currently the only Osteopath in Northern Ireland to have completed a Post-Graduate Diploma in Paediatric Osteopathy at the Osteopathic Centre for Children in London. The Diploma provided unparalleled Paediatric training and comprehensive clinical experience working in such locations as the Neonatal Unit at Barnet Hospital.

A huge part of this course centres round treating patients cranially and Julia uses both structural and cranial techniques tailoring treatment specifically for each patient. She has developed a wide range of skills over her years in practice that have enables her to successfully treat a wide range of conditions in people of all ages.

Julia has completed the Children’s Teacher Meditation Course with Connected kids and has an interest in Retained Primitive Reflexes and how they affect our body and emotions.

She has completed Level 1 and 2 of Douglas Heel’s Be Activated Course looking at how compensation patterns in our body affect our biomechanics and emotions.

Julia is a member of the Sutherland Cranial College (SCCO) and is continuing her professional development through post graduate courses with the SCCO and the Biodynamic Osteopathy phase 9 courses.


Karen Murdock

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Be Balanced, Be You – Equine Facilitated Learning (EFL)

Using a combination of talk based interactions and support, psychoeducation and strategies, and bottom to top regulation, this practice offers therapeutic riding sessions to individuals from 4 years of age. Working with a wide range of issues including mental health, learning difficulties and disabilities, and personal growth.

Specialises in working with ADHD, ADD, ASD, neurodiversity, anxiety, confidence & self esteem needs, social, emotional, behavioural difficulties and mental health (SEBD/SEMH), executive function challenges, transitional struggles, a learning disability, sensory issues, Downs syndrome.

Teaching children and adults with a range of specialist needs and having particular focus on those who have become disengaged with or disinterested in, traditional ‘talk based’ support.

Specialist in therapeutic riding with specific interest in vestibular, proprioceptive, interoception and tactile stimulation, including kinesthesis, bilateral movements posture, spatial awareness, core stability, psychomotor coordination, balance, body symmetry, neuromotor coordination and orientation, concentration and enhanced social interaction.

Christmas donations to TESSA

As we approach the festive period, and the sparkly lights emerge, we ask you to keep in mind those who may be struggling this time of year.

If you would like to make a Christmas donation to the work that TESSA and TESSA Teens do, please use the PayPal link below. Any donations can be made as a one-off payment, or as a monthly recurring donation.

Always with our gratitude,

TESSA

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Brona raises £750 for TESSA!

What a wonderful way to conclude ADOPTION WEEK here at TESSA than with a generous donation of £750 from Brona Anderson!

Brona kindly hosted a coffee morning and split the raised funds between TESSA and another adoption support group who aim to bring together Thai children who have been adopted and currently live in NI. Brona paid us a visit and we couldn’t miss a photo opportunity! Pictured above is Brona, with our project manager, Roxanne Small.

Donations made to the TESSA project are used to enhance and continue delivering our therapeutic services for adopted families in Northern Ireland. Every penny of Brona’s donation will be used for the TESSA project alone. As a charity funded project donations like Brona’s mean the world to us.

THANK YOU BRONA, we are very proud to have been chosen to receive these funds by you.