How to Access Counsellors

You are doing a great job and we want you to keep doing it.

At TESSA we offer counselling to every parent referred to our service because we recognise that parenting a child with a trauma history can take its toll on us and our relationships. Our counselling service aims to validate your role as a parent. It is a supportive space where you can be open about the challenges and the joys of family life. Look upon it as a form of self-care because you are worth it!

Sometimes it’s easier to talk to a stranger than to relatives or friends. A trained counsellor or therapist can listen without judgement and help you find your own answers to problems.

Our aim is to provide a counselling service accessible to adopters throughout Northern Ireland. We have a team throughout the province with their own specialisms and areas of interest, all of whom fit the TESSA criteria for standards of good practice.

"The counselling I received through TESSA has been life changing. Thank you so much."

Only you can choose the therapist who’s right for you. Most practitioners are happy for you to phone and ask questions to help with your decision making.

Things you should consider include:

    • Would you feel comfortable telling this person intimate details about yourself and your family?
    • Do you feel safe with them?
    • Do you like their manner?
    • Could you be completely open with them?

When you have made your choice (it may be worth having a second and third choice), please get in touch so we can arrange contact.